"Slur" is no longer a slur?: Bloddy hell!

Briefly skimmed through the "slut" article in the NY Times. STEPHANIE ROSENBLOOM asserts, "Like “queer” and “pimp” before it, the word slut seems to be moving away from its meaning as a slur. Or is it?"

Slurs like "nigger" and "slut" might seem to evolve into terms of endearment but they are still demeaning just the same and they do not empower anyone.

But what about my heroines of the porn world or my rapper heros who wear their gun shot wounds like badges of honor?

I am torn.

Also, noticed the Times promoting the hell out of "Classic" Maureen Dowd columns so I decided to post this old ditty that I never published about a one night stand two summers ago with a dude that was not that into me.


Tuesday, August 17, 2004
"I've never done anything by halves" -Coco Chanel
Too bad Coco did not know that coco means pussy in haitian creole. I am yummicoco, of course. So its now August 15th, after midnight. We were cuddling on the couch. Some [South Asian] practically had my pants off as he was stroking my back and playing with the strap of my underware. He feels my pelvic bone. "what's this? I must find all the imperfections on your body."

When I was in the car with Long Island gal pal and gay beta male John. She put on the strokes' 2nd album. "wait, when [a friend] was volunteering in the mid-west, she hooked with some guy in her dorm room. She did a striptease and sang this song to him..." I advanced the disc to track 8

.....I don't wanna waste your time.....I don't wanna waste your time....we are under control...out of control.

We all crack up. [friend] is hilarous.

Anyway, back in my yellow room. I put in ziggy stardust as initial make out music. not the best choice but I love "soul love". [South Asian] and Bowie don't fit. We were in my room. He asked me to put my cats in the living room. I only found Jackie at this point. I closed the door, turned off the light and climbed on top of him. I gave him a kiss on the cheek (signature move) and then we started.

He takes off my shirt. He loves to feel my butt. He is trying to touch me so much that finally i confess to having my period. A girlfriend of mine always said that having sex on your period is the bomb and that for a guy to do it with you on your period means that he really likes you...

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Anyway, yes that's gross but it does relive cramps!